Julia: starving scottish art student and moonlighting fanfiction author, writes for Harry Potter and Inception under the penname peppersweet.
Rather than accepted, female bisexuality is “encouraged” on the sole grounds that it be palatable to straight men. Bisexual women are presented in hypersexualized contexts, as sexual objects for the hegemonic straight male gaze, while directly or covertly appealing to a quasi-pornographic fantasy of a (two females and one male) threesome, and while also reassuring us that these women are not really bisexual, but are simply behaving so for the satisfaction of the presumed male spectator.
Shiri Eisner, Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution, p.159 (via bisexual-books)
❀ about me ❀

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BASICS:

name: Julia
age: 19 & 3/4
birthday: july 18th
zodiac: cancer (I’m crabby hhoohoho)
single or taken: single, ready to mingle, eating pringles
height: 5’3”
eye color: grey-blue
middle name: hope
favorite color: orange
lucky number: idk?? i like the number 3…

SPECIFICS/DETAILS:

hogwarts house: ravenclaw/hufflepuff (raverpuff!!)
favorite animal: dogs for cuddles, owls for majestic swoopiness
favorite season: spring
describe yourself in a few words: errhh, ohhh, um??
future children’s names: I’m not the birthing type but Arthur and Morven are my favourite names
what you plan do for a living: my current ambition is to work in the publishing/print industry on the “making shit pretty” side of things. I’d really like to be a published author but I don’t have the work ethic for that. It would be really sweet to be a practising artist but that’s not sustainable. I also really like the idea of becoming a researcher in an art library focusing on artists’ books and zines.

THIS OR THAT:

introvert or extrovert: introvert 
dawn or dusk: dusk - I’m a night owl
righty or lefty: righty handwritingy, lefty politically
coffee or tea: tea, a thousand times tea. lady grey with milk pls.
rain or shine: I like rain in summer when it’s warm and still and I like afternoon spring sunshine but generally sun gives me a headache and I can’t tolerate temperatures above 28 celsius so rain, rain, rain.
reading or writing: mmmhnhnhn don’t make me choose. I like both!

Seven Things the Movies Forgot About Hermione

lurknomoar:

In the original books, Hermione was a clever, kick-ass character made highly relatable by her imperfections. The movies erased most of her flaws, making her a better ‘role model for girls’, but a far less interesting person: a typical weakly written strong woman. 

So here are a few things we should remember about Hermione:

1. She is an outsider. Just like Harry, she is often clueless about the unspoken rules of wizarding society, but unlike Harry she has no illustrious parentage and pretty green eyes to compensate for it. This goes beyond the blatant racism she is shown for her muggle-born status, and means that assimilation is a constant conscious struggle for her.

2. She has bad social skills. She is a good friend, but not always good company. Hermione isn’t called a know-it-all just because smart girls tend to be bullied, she is a know-it-all. She can sometimes ‘manage’ people when she tries, but when she doesn’t pay attention she is often blunt and tactless. She alternates between showing off her knowledge and assuming everybody knows what she knows, and she talks a lot about things only she is interested in. Remember how she introduces herself to Harry – it is far more awkward than cute, and she doesn’t outgrow it entirely. I know that opinionated women are often put down for opening their mouths, but Hermione is a more interesting character for having moments where she is genuinely grating and arrogant.

3. She is authoritarian. She has a worrying authoritarian streak, repeatedly choosing the rules over her friends in the first few books, such as the time when she lets Harry’s new Firebolt be confiscated. She was still unwilling to disobey an instruction in a textbook in book six, when she had already organised resistance against Umbridge and broken into the Department of Mysteries. This of course means that every time she chooses to break a rule is emphatically more awesome. When she perceives herself to be in a position of authority, she expects the same obedience from other people. She often makes decisions for people, speaks over them. Sometimes this is a positive trait, her friends often ask her to do their homework for them, and the planning she does for DA actually pays off. But she often assumes – that Harry’s broomstick is cursed, that house-elves want freedom, that Trelawney is a fraud. One of the most interesting aspects of her character development is outgrowing this to learn to break rules and actually listen to people.

4. She has a habit of obsessively focusing on things. Again, sometimes this is productive, such as when she takes off to the library for hours and comes back with a solution, but sometimes it is silly like her crush on Lockhart or harmful like the entire S.P.E.W. fiasco. Combined with her monologues, her hit-and-miss social skills and her adherence to rules, I am surprised the internet isn’t flooded with headcanons that put her somewhere on the autistic spectrum.

5. She is not pretty. I remember watching 11-year-old Hermione in the movies and already thinking she looks far too polished. It’s not that book Hermione is ugly, it’s just that she puts no effort into her looks. The point of the ball room scene is that she proves to herself that she is capable of presenting traditionally feminine and attractive if she tries really-really hard, not that she has always been beautiful without trying. Her unprettiness was actually one of the factors that made her so relatable, and while I didn’t expect the movies to actively make her ugly, they could have just at least chosen less flattering clothes and put slightly less product in her hair.

6. She has fears. She is extremely brave, but she is still human, and there are moments when she loses control. She panics when the Devil’s Snare attacks her, and Ron has to snap her out of it. She shows visible fear when faced with hippogriffs, with centaurs, with Grawp, and one time she fails to defeat a boggart. She is afraid of flying, and as a result she isn’t simply uninterested in quidditch, she actively sucks at it, but still gets onto a hippogriff, a thestral and a dragon. She is all right at Defense and duelling, but despite all her work lacks Harry’s raw talent. This doesn’t make her weak – a perfectly brave person is much less motivational than a person who is terrified but does her best.

7. She has a near-pathological fear of failure. This is partly due to her outsider status, partly her personality, but she is a nervous wreck and an overachiever. One of the first things she says is that she knows all textbooks by heart and hopes it will be enough. This isn’t mere intellectual curiosity, this is sheer fucking terror. She isn’t that smart merely because she’s gifted, but because she relentlessly overworks herself. In the third books she uses time-travel to get to all of her classes, and she spends most of the book looking half-dead with exhaustion. She is often described as frazzled or otherwise nervous, and for god’s sake, her boggart is a failed test! Again, she starts to grow out of this around book five, but it still remains a part of who she is. In the case of movie Hermione, her fear gets minimised into a generic smart-girl personality.

Hermione is awesome, but the more perfect she is the less she has to do with us, smart unpretty girls looking for someone to relate to. Or just people in general, looking for someone to relate to. Let the movies keep their superhuman super-clever Hermione who stares danger in the face but is upset that her hair looks bad from behind. I want book Hermione, a girl with flaws, a woman with issues who has to work and learn in order to overcome her inadequacies and become the good friend and great witch she is.

talk to me about the dark side of nerd girl culture pls
asked by Anonymous

oddhour:

oh god you jump me with this question.

I think the dark side applies similarly to nerd girls and guys, but it’s usually never discussed about girls—which I’ll get to later.

The dark side of nerddom starts with an overblown sense of superiority paired with crippling insecurity. Brains over brawn, anti-popularity, anti-extroversion, anti-feminine, anti-anything threatening what they like. There are the socially awkward who make excuses for their awkwardness rather than attempt to fix it; social skills are important, you shouldn’t be proud of lacking them. Then there are introverts who make it everyone else’s responsibility to mind their shyness and don’t ever consider extrovert needs. Obsessive fans who aggressively push Doctor Who to their friends and being offended when their friends—gasp—don’t share their tastes, and then get super elitist about watching quality British programming.

There is a difference between “being true to yourself” and “not being an ass.” Unless you’re in a restrictive environment, you’re probably not bullied because you like weird things—it’s because you’re annoying and judgmental and maybe a bully yourself.

Now a tangent on nerd girl representation:

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writing tip #804:

gr8writingtips:

it’s a metaphor; you put your fingers on the keys but you don’t actually do any writing

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OMG. It’s a wonder I’m not fat with all the Reese’s that’s available to me. It’s too good.
right?? I could eat, like, ten of the things in one sitting. but then I might be a little bit sick.
I also found out that asda stocks pop tarts - which I’ve been meaning to try for ages - so that’s next on my ‘american sweets and treats to try before I die’ list.
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